Archive for the ‘Self Improvement’ category

Bad karma: List of actions that accrue bad karma

February 27th, 2012

When I started this blog, I first wrote about Law of karma and then came another post on the same lines explaining methods to get rid of bad karma. Since then I have realized that a lot of apprehension is among readers about what is good and bad karma. So in this post I will list actions that accrue bad karma in one’s life. Please note that our inner self already knows the difference between good and bad, however this post will only help to bring these actions from sub-conscious to conscious mind. » Read more: Bad karma: List of actions that accrue bad karma

How did I reduce anger

February 17th, 2012

There was a time when I was living almost like a bomb ready to explode, I had accumulated a lot of anger against individuals and circumstances. I was so angry that I decided not to keep a firearm or weapon ever with me. There were frequent episodes of rage that occurred during the eighteen months when anger within me was at unacceptable level. I will give some situations that will allow readers to estimate my condition: » Read more: How did I reduce anger

How to seek forgiveness consciously and sub-consciously

January 23rd, 2012

By forgiving and by being forgiven we close karmic chapters. It is like withdrawing energy from an oscillating pendulum that is hindering inner tranquility and peace.  We improve our relations significantly with others when we actively seek forgiveness for our past inappropriate deeds. It also prevents us from initiating further hostilities against our own fellow beings.

In spite of all the advantages, seeking forgiveness is a difficult issue when it comes to practical implementation. The risk of further aggravating a strained relation, a bitter rivalry or becoming subject of revenge is high and one should move with caution. These problems haunted me initially but then I realized the subtle ways to do it. As usual, I am thankful to god for assistance that came in the form of intuition. It helped me reduce a lot of stress, anger and resentment. Suggested steps that help seek forgiveness are the following:

How to accept our own mistakes

January 23rd, 2012

Knowing and accepting our mistakes is the first step for forgiving oneself and for seeking forgiveness from others. Unless and until we realize and accept our own mistakes we cannot start the process of forgiving ourselves and others. Here are some steps that have helped me and I am sure will help any one who is ready to forgive himself for his mistakes.

  1. Quieten the voice of ego: The rational mind always justifies itself; it throws a lot of tantrums to prevent us from accepting our own errors. For example, a customer walks up to me and asks “which is the best product for me?” as a business owner I guide him to a product that gives highest profit obscuring better alternatives. This behaviour will always be justified by ego unless someone else does it to me. Once I get to taste my own medicine I might realize the effects of purposely misguiding.
    The ego has all the excuses under the sun for justifying actions that prevent us from becoming good. You can find these traits in the post ‘How to be good’. The only thing the ego does not tell is how to get rid of the emotional pain, failure, guilt and other negative effects that spring due to our wrong actions. So » Read more: How to accept our own mistakes

How to forgive our own self

January 23rd, 2012

All of us have areas in our lives where we can see us as perpetrators rather than victims. As ignorant beings we inflict pain on others to accomplish selfish motives. However with time these ignorant actions start to give us emotional pain, the more sensitive or evolved we are more we feel this pain. » Read more: How to forgive our own self

How to be good

January 14th, 2012

It might not seem apparent but there are innumerable benefits of being a good person. These benefits come because Goodness is our natural and most stable state that blends with our inner self. The moment we deviate from goodness, we start a conflict within ourselves, loosing many of the God given gifts like peace, happiness, self-confidence, faith and intuition. We must keep in mind, that the core of our being is good of the highest order, but when we identify ourselves separately through our ego we bury that core under the debris of bad. To be good we just need to » Read more: How to be good

How to be happy-part 3

December 17th, 2011

This is third part of the ‘how to be happy’ series. In this part we will look at some suggested actions that help us to be happy. This list gives best result when practiced. If you have landed directly on this page then first consider the two preceding parts of this series listed below:

How To Be Happy- part 1
How to Be Happy- part 2

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How to be happy- part 2

December 14th, 2011

Consider how to be happy-part 1 first.

Weed out causes of unhappiness to be happy!

Our intrinsic nature is full of happiness, we only need to clear the dirt of ignorance deposited on our hearts.

In this part we will look at some of the key factors that rob happiness from our lives, these factors may be subtle or apparent, often present in the background. The best way to combat them is to recognize their presence and disintegrate them actively through the powers of conscious, sub-conscious and super-conscious mind combined with appropriate action. Let us look at them: » Read more: How to be happy- part 2

How to be happy- part 1

November 21st, 2011

Answers That We Must Know To Be Happy

Happiness is just a state of mind… OK agreed! But is there a way to maintain that state all the time? Let us explore…

The key to happiness lies in our understanding of truth. A clear understanding of happiness principles allows us to practice them in thought and action. As we apply our understanding of truth in our lives we start to improve base line happiness in our lives. Conversely, our ignorance often deludes and pushes us towards unhappiness. I have listed six instrumental answers that have helped me improve my base line happiness, allowing me to be happy even during testing times. I am sure they will act as stepping stones towards happiness for all.

Q 1. Who are we?

Answer: We are nothing but consciousness, immortal and ever living, we do not die once the body dies, death just is transformation from one form of existence to another. Our existence beyond human body is now well recognized in view of the evidence arising from research conducted on Near Death Experience and past life regression. As per spiritual as well as modern scientists, we live » Read more: How to be happy- part 1

How to get rid of past bad karma

November 9th, 2011

The scope of this post is to reveal various options available to get rid of past bad karma. Past bad karma or past negative karma includes negative karma accrued during this and past lifetimes. This list obviously is not exhaustive but limited to my knowledge of the subject.

Through Meditation: This I heard in a satsang (spiritual talk) given by » Read more: How to get rid of past bad karma